general
This is a blog built on self-indulgence, more so than anything else I've ever done on this site. I previously explored Dhavi's character on a multimuse but anxiety led me to believe I was annoying people who didn't follow me for Dragon Age/Lavellan shenanigans, so I moved her to her own blog. Because of this, I am less filtered here than I would be on other blogs.
AS A NOTE: I do NOT support generative AI, please do NOT interact with me if you do.
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selectivity
I'm trying to keep my dash relatively clean and only follow folks I can see myself interacting with in some way or another. I don't do follow-for-follow. If you have a specific idea in mind for Dhavi and I haven't followed you back after a week, please feel free to send me an ask! I likely just didn't think of it or didn't notice if you had a verse Dhavi would work in. I do also try to keep mun chemistry in mind, so there may be times when I don't follow because I think we won't get along for some reason or another. Please don't take any of this personally, I'm just trying to curate my space.
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memes & starter calls
Starter/Shipping/Plotting/Inbox Calls are for mutuals only, but ask memes are for anyone. Please respect this and again don't take it personally. If a meme is in the meme tag, you can send it whenever. There is no expiration date on those.
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breaking mutuals
Of course anyone is welcome to break mutuals at any time, and nobody owes any explanations. There's no hard feelings for curating your space. I only ask if you're going to do so, please block or at least soft-block me. I prefer to keep my dash to mutuals-only and not inadvertently insert myself into a space where I'm not wanted.
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plotting
I love plotting. Let's talk about our barbies and how they fit together. Let's talk about those small moments that just don't justify a whole thread, or let's talk about what direction we want a thread to go in! Let's make pre-existing relationships or discuss together what we each want from a dynamic. There's no such thing as 'bad' plotting—if we disagree, at least we know where we both stand, and that's better than not knowing. I will never be offended if an idea you have doesn't mesh with you or your interpretation. If I wanted to do everything my way, I'd just write fic.
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formatting
I use single small font and bold and italics for emphasis, beta editor only. I love the use of icons, but they aren't necessary and if my partner isn't using icons neither will I. I will cut our threads, regardless of whether or not you do, and it won't offend me if you don't. If you ever need any of this adjusted for our threads, please let me know!
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terminology
A quick note about terminology not used on this blog. Aside from this explanation, I will not personally use the terms alienage, phylactery, or mana on this blog, despite their prevalence in the source material. "Alienages" will be referred to as elven communities, as the real-world use of the term carries troubling associations. "Phylactery" and "mana" are appropriated terms; the former will be called "reliquaries" and the latter will be referred to as "magical energy" or "magic pool" as relevant.
writing speed
Although I am almost always on this hellsite, this is and always will be a hobby first. This is what I do for fun, and Dhavi's blog specifically is intended to be extremely self-indulgent for me. As a result, I don't ever want to feel like anyone is owed anything. I am not owed replies in a timely manner by you, and you are not owed replies in a timely manner by me. I write what I have muse for. Only friends may bully me for replies, and they know who they are. That said, if you think I have missed something, one poke will always be allowed. Tumblr eats notifications all the time, and I'll appreciate making sure I saw something.
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mains & exclusives
I don't do exclusivity very easily, if at all. Exclusivity requires extensive plotting between our muses, to the extent that I feel it would be uncomfortable to try to write Dhavi with another version of the same character, and it must be mutual. That said, I do appreciate mains! Mains lets me know I can come to you with plot ideas whenever they pop up. I prefer to keep canon character mains to no more than 2-3 at a time, and I prefer mains to be mutual.
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shipping
If it's not obvious I ship Solavellan, idk what to tell you. That said, it's not the only ship I'm interested in, and I will not assume a romantic relationship with any Solas rper unless you have made it abundantly clear that you're interested in that with Dhavi. In general, I am terrified of being perceived as forcing a ship, so I tend to err on the side of caution and assume the other side is not interested unless they blatantly tell me otherwise. Please send me shippy memes first or just hit me with a brick if you're interested in shipping.
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triggers
I do not have any triggers, but triggering content may come up on this blog. I tag all common triggers with "#[trigger] cw //" If there is something I don't tag that you need tagged, please tell me. I read rules before following, but I sometimes forget what people need tagged, particularly if it doesn't come up very often for me. I tag anything literally not suitable for a boss to see as "#nsfw //" though smut is unlikely to be written on this blog.I will not rp dubcon, rape, or sexual assault. It's one thing if it is mentioned as something that has already happened, but I am not interested in writing it out or participating in plots where that's a strong theme. I will not ship Dhavi with anyone underage.
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about the mun
Hi, I'm Lou, I'm agender, 30+, and white. My pronouns are any, but I default to they/them. When I'm not writing or playing video games, I'm drawing and you can check out my art here. I am currently unemployed but looking to start schooling to get into a career soon. That means I have a lot of time right now but won't before long.
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non-inquisitor aus
At this time I do not have an AU available where Dhavi is not the Inquisitor. I also do not have an AU available where Dhavi is not First/Keeper of Clan Lavellan. These are two aspects of her that are very important to her character and her story, and I don't see myself changing that any time soon. At this time, I do not have an idea in mind for companion!Dhavi that is anywhere near as satisfying to me as her as Inquisitor. If you also don't have an AU available where your Inquisitor isn't Inquisitor, I totally understand! We can focus on non-Inquisition threads or, if that's not something that interests you, we can just share headcanon questions and the like.